Doable Things

We often succeed best at advocacy when we take on doable things, Dan Savage‘s term for actions that are both manageable and achievable. A first step is to identify the forms of advocacy that best suit our skills, interests, and schedules.

  • Advocacy can be contained but highly effective actions, such as contacting elected officials, writing letters to editors, phone banking, marching in LGBTQ-focused parades and protests, speaking at events, attending hearings, and participating in lobby days.
  • Advocacy can be an ongoing role, where we gain expertise and focus on long-term goals for changing policy: for example, we might volunteer for key responsibilities with our chapter or consider a leadership position.
  • Advocacy can be integrated into our daily lives through modeling and expressing our belief in LGBTQ equality. Visibility and speaking out in the moment are potent forms of advocacy.
  • Advocacy can be supporting and aligning with other organizations that, like PFLAG, work for equality, by becoming a member and/or participating in mutual and joint events.
  • Advocacy can require education to stay on top of multiple issues and disseminate accurate information about complex policies and law. We might need to consult with field experts and experienced members. (The second half of our monthly meeting generally features a guest speaker who provides first-hand information on key LGBTQ issues.)

If you have not advocated for PFLAG before or want to learn about the process, we encourage you consult Advocacy 101, a page of the PFLAG National website that includes these materials: